Why the First Week of School Is Where Teachers Get It Wrong And How to Get It Right

Most teachers spend months agonizing over lesson plans, meticulously mapping curriculum, and sourcing resources.

Yet, according to this electrifying episode of "In My Kitchen with Yvonne," the real make-or-break moment is one that’s overlooked and often rushed: the very first week of school.

This time is more than a mere warm-up, and how you use it can transform your classroom culture, learner motivation, and outcomes for the entire year.

Rethinking the First Week: More Than Admin and Housekeeping

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As Marcelo puts it so simply, “Most classrooms don’t struggle because of behaviour. They struggle because of what happens in the first week” 02:10. Often, the first interactions define how safe, heard, and empowered students feel. If the week is all about rules, admin, and a rushed intro to "content," students quickly learn that being right matters more than being curious.

But what if, instead, we slow down and use this week for something far more powerful, building community, setting values, modelling intellectual curiosity, and showing kids that not knowing is all part of the adventure?

The Joy of Not Knowing: A Case for Curiosity

Marcelo, a research scientist-turned-primary teacher, head teacher, and current Assistant Professor at the University of Sussex, has built a career around a simple but powerful idea: The “Joy of Not Knowing.” The goal isn’t to shame students for mistakes or for not having the right answer, but rather to make curiosity and intellectual risk-taking central to classroom culture 05:44.

Drawing on the “learning pit” model popularized by James Nottingham, Yvonne, highlights how real learning only begins with embracing what we don’t know and sitting with that uncertainty 14:24. Students should have the space emotionally and structurally to climb out of the pit encouraged, resilient, and ready to ask new questions sparked by new understanding.

If you know it, you can jump across the pit but if you don’t, you go inside. And that’s where all your real learning happens,” Marcelo explains 14:33. When kids are taught that not knowing is not only okay but the secret to learning, you create an environment where growth can happen.

James Nottingham - The Learning Pit

The Learning to Learn Week: Culture by Design

So, how does this look in practice?

The “Learning to Learn Week” isn’t about jumping straight into curriculum content. It’s about intentionally co-creating classroom norms with students: establishing values democratically, designing the physical space together, and explicitly teaching “how” to think, not just “what” to think 19:06, 20:41.

Classes are invited to sit in a “horseshoe” shape, ensuring everyone can see and hear each other, fostering equality and participation.

Together, students vote on the classroom’s core values and use these, not a list of arbitrary rules, to guide daily interactions 45:03.

The week’s activities include encouraging philosophical thinking

(“Do two-dimensional shapes exist?”), creative modeling of the learning process

(“How is learning like planting a seed or finding your way through a maze?”) 24:04, and equipping children with “toolboxes” for resilience, curiosity, and collaboration.

Marcelo Staricoff, Creator and Author of JONK, UNICEF Expert

By the end, as Marcelo beautifully describes, “they feel able to thrive socially, academically, cognitively, linguistically, culturally,” regardless of achievement gaps or challenges 22:01.

Why the First Week Matters More Than You Think

Redefining the first week isn’t about letting go of control, it’s about building a system instead of relying on command.

“[Calm] classrooms come from system, not content correction,” Yvonne observes 59:22. When students help shape their culture and see learning as a journey, behaviour “problems” diminish and curiosity soars.

Looking Ahead

The first week should be a foundation, not a checklist. It should be a time when students see themselves as valued, capable, and eager to learn.

Ultimately, as this episode reminds us, the greatest shift comes not from changing students, but from redesigning the very beginning.

Real Talk, Real Schools, Real SOLUTIONS

Ready to try it? This year, slow down in week one. Ask a big question. Co-create a value. Make not knowing a superpower. And watch your classroom transform.

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Want to listen further or share ideas with your own school leadership team?

For more ideas, check out the full episode "The First Week Teachers Get Wrong Every Single Year" on "In My Kitchen with Yvonne," or explore Marcelo’s work at jonklearning.co.uk.

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